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Seeking Arrangements claims that sugar daddies can help students manage their finances while elevating their lifestyle above that of a typical university student although many babies don't solely rely on sugaring for their income. Eighteen-year-old Michelle Lee was nervous about her first sugar date. She had just moved out from her parents house and was learning to navigate the world on her own. Arriving at her sugar daddy's house, she told herself she would be okay despite the safety risks. She had been thinking about doing this for months. She reminded herself that people always worry about safety when meeting a stranger from the internet.
She was only concerned with meeting a stranger. Once Lee talked to the guy for a while, she stopped being nervous. He seemed harmless so she started to relax.
Now 19, the second-year art student looks back on her first arrangement with no regrets. Lee continued to see him for a few months. She worked through Seeking Arrangements, a sugar baby site, commonly referred to as Seeking.
A sugar baby is someone, typically a young person, who goes on dates in exchange for money, gifts, mentorship or travel. Wealthy sugar daddies hire sugar babies for these dates. These arrangements are typically referred to as sugar dating or sugaring. When first getting into sugaring she was more worried about her parents finding out. But now it seems normal to her. Lee is far from the only UBC student to give it a try.
This places the school 17th out of all Canadian schools for users. You could argue that to some extent but even [sex work] should be normalized. When he told Lee that no self-respecting woman should be a sugar baby, she just nodded along with him. She thought there was no point in arguing with him. She said if she viewed the relationship as long-term she would have been more bothered by his comments. But the stakes can feel higher in sugar daddy situations because of the financial impact.
Over time she became uncomfortable so she stopped, although he kept asking.
She turned him down. Lee tells her friends never to give out their bank information and avoid PayPal or any online transferring services. Lee only accepted cash because even an e-Transfer exposes their address which could reveal their true identity — Lee warns against using a real name. That means most sugar babies make less than minimum wage. Seeking Arrangements boasts that this comes among other benefits like luxury gifts, travelling and mentorship but Lee says arrangements like that are rare.
Liz, a student at Simon Fraser University whose name has been changed, told The Runner that she had a part-time job and parental support when she started to sugar. There are many different types of arrangements, some are pay-per-month some are pay-per-date. Lee prefers pay-per-date arrangements as pay-per-month is too much commitment for her.
Lee claims that she has a higher rate because she is open to having sex. GHB, a common date-rape drug, is a colourless and odourless substance that may cause a tranquilized effect or amnesia. But Lee personally was always open to having sex while sugaring as she just views them as normal dates.
The last time Lee was active on the site — a few months ago before the current public health restrictions — things were business as usual. Lee said she was mostly seeing her regulars during the pandemic, although the guys that were messaging her still seemed open to meet and were unconcerned with the pandemic despite public health advice. At the end ofthere were only 71 members. While Seeking Arrangements boasts that the majority of its sugar babies are students, there seems to be an overall drop in student usage throughout Canada.
Between and the University of Toronto dropped from to At York University, to Despite this drop, the site still reports a 3 per cent increase in student membership worldwide, however, last year saw a 44 per cent increase in university users. Seeking Arrangements incentivizes student engagement. If someone s up with a. Tia, a sugar baby who also attends UBC, told Vancouver Is Awesome that giving Seeking Arrangements a student can get you verified as a student which can help get better matches.
The drop in sugar babies may be due to the pandemic. Jones, author of The Sugar Daddy Formula. This may cause sugar babies to take a step back. Lee is surprised the s have dropped Sugar daddy wants to see you weekly she feels sugaring has become increasingly normalized through apps such as TikTok. Although she does understand why some may have dropped off due to not wanting to risk meeting people in the current health crisis and some students moving back home, others may feel similar to Lee.
During the pandemic, housing has become an increased concern for some students with residence closures. Sugar daddies can help provide some financial support along with mentorship, wrote Seeking Arrangements in a press release. It was just a life hack really. So, yeah, I do miss [it]. You can here. Sections News Culture Culture Isolation. No private jets or unlimited bank s. Being a sugar baby is not what you think.
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